"One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter."
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Lesson 135: Moving on

If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.

Letting go doesn't mean giving up. It means moving on. It is one of the hardest thing a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so.

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We have to be tough enough to let go and move on after everything has fallen out of its place because things will fall together the way they are supposed to in proper time. And just what Victoria Holt said, NEVER REGRET. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience.

Lesson 134: Appreciate it!

Every moment in time gives us the chance to love, to learn, to dream, and to become more than we ever imagined. Appreciate every heartache that leaves you crying till morning comes, every wound that makes you stronger, every laughter that makes you cry, every downfall that keeps your heart fighting, every loss game that makes you a better player, everytime when you're at your wit's end, because everything will pay off one day. Learn to trust in TIME - a wheel in constant motion, just ride with it and take all the bumps and turns as LIFE IS A STORY THAT ONLY TIME CAN TELL.

Lesson 133: Life is not fair

We all have to face tough times in our lives but do not let the circumstances defeat us and makes us bitter and depressed. It is all just a matter of choice. Life has not always been fair. Life is simply what you make out of it. You can allow life to stop you or dictate how things are to happen. If life gives you lemons, then you need to learn to make lemonade.

Acknowledging that life is not fair can help us in accepting, dealing, and forgiving. We should know from that simple fact that we will face some trials and tribulations in our lives even if sometimes it will seem as if there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

We got to get over when people rejoice when we fall. We got to learn to have tough skin. We got to learn to grin and smile no matter how much it kills us - because when we get to the point that we can handle being ridiculed and we can get past our problems, we are growing stronger with the Lord.


If you think you are unhappy, look at them...



If you think your salary is low, how about her?



If you think you don't have many friends...



When you feel like giving up, think of this man


If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?



If u complain about your transport system, how about them?



If your society is unfair to you, how about her?


Enjoy life how it is and as it comes
Things are worse for others and is a lot better for us.
There are many things in your life that will catch your eye
but only a few will catch your heart....pursue those...





Lesson 132: Believe!

Don't see others as doing better than you. Beat your own records daily because SUCCESS IS A FIGHT BETWEEN YOU AND YOURSELF. If you believe it is too difficult, it will be. If you believe it is possible, it will be. If you want it to be, you need to BELIEVE!

Although I have made a million mistakes in my life, I have learned a million and one lessons. There is nothing more I can do than just strive and make the best out of everything in life.

Lesson 131

"Some things are meant to be and there are things that are just not meant to be."

If you really deserve it, it will be yours no matter what, no matter how much you avoid it; but if it does not, there is no choice left but to let it go. Just like those baffling problems, if those beats are not meant for us, it would not be in any way. We just always have to gear up in the rough road of life where there will be acceptance of the fact that there will always be those rough roads.

Learn from one rebuke

Every day is a new day and each day is another chance for us to make things right. One of the few important lessons I have learned as I sail and go with the flow in the river of life is to never ever get sunk on the same boat again - do not commit the same mistakes over and over. We are always given another day, another chance. Every day is a new day of learning. We just have to accept that whatever it is, it has been done already and things will never be the same like it was before. That is the irony of life. Mistakes and pain are part of growing up and who would want to feel the same pain over and over again that is why we have to learn the lesson of the mistake and never do it again. We only live once, so better live it the best way we can. Life is never perfect - we just have to make it worth living.